50 Things to put into a letter

There's nothing better than getting create and writing a letter to a friend and I love putting little extras into my letters as a little surprise for when they receive it.

So here is a list of a few ideas you can create to pop into an envelope next time you write to someone.

1. Write a 'mail tag' asking your pen pals questions about themselves
2. A mini quiz on a favourite topic of your pen pal's
3. Write a mini playlist of songs or TV programs 
4. A mini envelope with a little message inside
5. A teabag, coffee sachet or hot chocolate sachet (don't send these internationally)
6. Origami
7. Word puzzles - I personally like to make up my own word searches but I also sometimes put in a page from a puzzle book or a sudoko or occasionally I've printed things like mazes
8. Have a game of noughts and crosses between your pen pal
9. Another pen pals of mine also recently put in a game of 4-in-a-row which was quite fun
10. Colouring in pages. I bought a mini colouring book and that was really good to pop into letters. Sometimes on repetitive patterns I also cut out a smaller section of the page
11. Quotes - either ones you've found online or one you've hand lettered
12. A poem
13. A jazzy paperclip - Pinterest has lots of ideas to make ones yourself with ribbon or washi tap
14. Washi tape samples
15. Samples of some stickers
16. Diary or planner stickers
17. A postcard of where you live or from a recent day out or holiday or one you've made yourself or acquired
18. Photographs for example  this could be of somewhere you live, your pet, a recent holiday snap etc
19. Funky post-it notes or page makers post-its
20. A bookmark - some ideas could be to make an origami bookmark or handmade one yourself or one you've acquired and would like to share with your pen pal
21. A bracelet you've made
22. Write 'top 10 list' such as your top ten books, films, songs etc
23. Random facts
24. A ticket of somewhere you've been recently such as a tourist attraction, the theatre or the cinema
25. A packet of flower seeds (don't send these internationally)
26. A small piece of crochet or knitting such as a small crochet star or flower or reusable cotton pad
27. Something you've made such as a hair scrunchie, lavender pillow, earring, a ring or a piece of weaving (check what you can send internationally)
28. A coaster
29. Cosmetics or toiletries samples like a body lotion packet sample (check what you can send internationally)
30. A comic strip or clip from a newspaper
31. Coins
32. Interesting or unusual stamps or airmail stickers
33. A drawing or doodle
34. A map of where you live or somewhere you've been
35. A sentence story game - you write the first part of a story and fold it over and your pen pal will write the next sentence of the story and fold it over to return to you to continue the game
36. Similar to the sentence story game this one you draw a picture or a person or creature - the first part is to draw the head and neck, then the next person draws the arms and torso, your pen pal returns it to you to draw the waist and knees and finally you return it to your penal to draw the knees and feet
37. A small sweet (don't send these internationally)
38. Paper confetti
39. Gift tags
40. A recipe
41. Letter writing paper and/or and envelope
42. Iron-on patches
43. Magnets
44. Button badges
45. If your pen pals keeps a scrapbook or journal you could send them some bits for their scrapbook or journal
46. Buttons
47. A zine
48. A miniature collage
49. Paint colour sample cards
50. Fold-out origami fortune teller

Severe M.E Day - Life with Severe M.E, a poem

Today is Severe M.E Awareness Day. It's a day to remember those struggling to live with this illness and to remember those that have lost their life to this illness.

I could tell you my M.E journey but I've already kind of done that so I thought I'd do something a little different. I'm no creative writer but hopefully this will share with you a little about life with M.E

Myalgic Encephalopathy...

My life has been turned upside down

You can't see it, but I feel it

Anger, upset, frustration all the emotions I have felt and more

Little things in life become the big things

Grief for the life I once had

I am defined by my illness but it is not the sum total of who I am

Cure, something we all hope for but more funding is needed

Exhausted of being exhausted

Never knowing what symptom will hit me next

Closed off from the outside world

Endless plans cancelled 

Pacing your way through the day to minimise the crash

Hope is the thing I cling to; for better days to come

Although my life is different to the one I had planned I rebuilding a new one

Loneliness, looking at the same few walls most days

Occasions remind me of the lost years and more lost years to come

Pain, I can't remember what it's like to be pain free

All the days and nights blur into one

The clock ticks by and I just take each day step-by-step

How I hate being ill yet I am grateful for what M.E has taught me

Years go by with my life on pause, hopefully one day it will play again

 

Review: Relax Melodies app

Relax Melodies is a great aid to sleep and daytime naps with a variety of features including meditation, stories and a melody composer.

Meditations

There is a wide variety of meditations to choose from including mindfulness, progressive muscle relaxation, hypnosis, body scanning and visualisation.

The '5 Nights of Total Relaxation' (which is available on the free access of the app) is informative and each night it guides you through different types of relaxation and meditations. This is great if you're new to mindfulness.

Some of the meditations you get the choice of either a female or male voice, others are just automatically chosen. Different meditations have different voices some I preferred over others. In the settings there is also the option to change the language to French.

One good feature is the ability to favourite meditations so you can quickly go to the ones you prefer; you can also download mediations for when you're not going to have internet access. 

There is also a filter to find particular meditations such as 'sleep faster'. 'relaxation', 'insomnia' and 'tinnitus'. There are also meditations for children also for some who benefit from ASMR. Whilst I don't personally benefit from ASMR with my hypersensitivity to noise at times listening to a whispered meditation does help.

Some of my favourite meditation that I enjoy include:

● Walking woodland visualisation

● Grounding meditation for anxiety 

● Healing waters for pain relief - this really helped me get a different perspective on pain

● 5 nights of gratitude

● Ocean visualisation

● Relaxing nap

  

Nap Time Meditations

The nap time meditations are good for getting a refreshing rest during the day. The '5 Days of Napping' is another informative meditation series providing information such as getting into a nap time routine and when is best in the day to take a nap.

Melody Composer

This is probably my favourite feature. I enjoy composing different melodies to suit where I would like to take my mind some sometimes it might take myself into the garden on a breezy day, or to the ocean, or to the city on a rainy day or in the forest.

You can also slide on each sound how loud or quiet you want that particular sound to be to make the perfect mix.

As well as sound effects there is music such as soft piano music, orchestral music, windpipes, and synthesiser music. Under the mixes you can also find 'Sound Journeys' which are 'curated soundscapes inspired by the natural world'.

Some of the music on the composer play at a Solfeggio frequency, for example 'Mood Balance' plays at a frequency of 639Hz. I asked Relax Melodies about this and they explained that this is their healing music range and that the frequency when listened to has healing properties. Some of their healing music includes: 'Emotional Release', 'Raise Energy', 'Energy Cleansing' and 'Anxiety Healer'. To find out more follow this link which will direct you to their blog. (It's quite interesting to read).

Your melody can also be put on timer so if you're having a half hour rest or going off to sleep you can set the timer and the music will fade out and you can also opt for the app to close once the timer has finished.

What I like most about this feature is that it can be used at any time of the day and it's very versatile. I can listen to relax or whilst I'm doing some gentle yoga or whilst I'm crafting as it doesn't take any concentration and it's very relaxing and soothing.

You can also save your favourite mixes and you can give the mix a name to return back to another time and these can be found. You can also submit your mix for other users of the app to listen to and you can find mixes by others also.

   

Stories

Last night for a change and to try them out I listened to a short story. It was quite relaxing and an enjoyable short story; around half and hour long with a soundscape to go with it which I was able to continue listening to once the story had finished and I eventually nodded off. 

I've been listening to the stories a little more. I quite like the fantasy and fairytale stories and I like how each story has it's own soundscape.

There is a wide variety of stories including non-fiction, 3D poetry, and ones for children. They also vary in length from 20 minutes to an hour.

The stories are a nice alternative to actively listening and engaging in a meditation.

Other Features

Breathing Exercises 

This is a great visualisation to learn some different breathing practices which can be done at any time.

 

Sleep Move

This is another feature of the app that I enjoy. It guides you through some either seated or supine movements to stretch out and relax the body ready for sleep but I've actually used them in the day as a form of gentle exercise.

Alarm

This can be set to go off in the morning and progressively gets louder. You can chose from traditional alarm sounds or from one of your mixes.

Other features

● Clock
● Bedtime reminder
● Connection to Apple Health

Final Thoughts

It would be nice if some of the voices on the stories and meditations could be improved and for there to always be a male/female voice option.

More stories for those using the free version of the app.

I love being able to compose my own melodies.

I like the wide range of meditations I can listen too but again it would be nice for there to be a small wider selection of those who are using the app for free and for these to be changed every-so-often.

It would be nice if some of the meditations had their own soundscape like with the stories, especially the visualisation meditations.

The website was okay-ish to navigate once I was familiar with where things was located. However an improvement I would strongly suggest would be be to make text larger or for it to make compatible with the device's visual accessibility settings.

Next would be to have a search bar. I know there are are already subcategories but being able to search for 'rain' in sounds or 'self-love' or 'body scan' in the meditations. I would also make the Sleep Moves a key category.

Lastly despite the app being up-to-date the 'Discover' page was always blank so I wan't able to see the latest updates. I also found it impossible to download new sounds unless I went onto my account on my laptop.

Overall I have really enjoyed my month of premium access to right this review and there are many feature that I love but to continuing paying for premium membership would be something I would have to think about.

August's Monthly Make - Crochet Glasses Case with video

This month's Monthly Make project is a simple crochet glasses case. Perfect for your sunglasses this summer or to keep your glasses safe in your handbag. You can also use for other things such as a pencil case or to store your crochet hooks. It also makes the perfect gift - I've just made one for a friend for her birthday in a multicoloured yarn.

Difficulty levels: ★ ★ ☆  (Intermediate) 

Materials

• 5mm crochet hook
• 5mm yarn (I've used on this project Drops Paris Uni Colour yarn)
• Medium - large button
• Needle and thread
• Scissors
• Notebook and pen (to keep count out your rows)

Abbreviations

(UK pattern)

• CH - Chain
• ST - Stitch
• SL ST - Slip stitch
• HTR - Half treble crochet
• DC - Double crochet

The stitch for this project is Even Moss Stitch ← Tutorial in link

This stitch alternates between SL ST and HTR

Front Piece

CH 12

Row 1

Turn and miss the first CH and HTR then Sl St into the next and continue with Even Moss Stitch (HTR, SL ST, HTR, SL ST and so on)

Rows 2-25

Continue as you did in Row 1 until you have 25 rows

Edging

After completing all 25 rows CH 1 and DC around the whole piece: top, bottom and sides remembering to do 3 DC in each corner

Creating a total number of 78 stitches

Tie off and cut

Back piece

As you did with the front piece do the following...

CH 12

Row 1

Turn and miss the first CH and HTR then SL ST into the next and continue with Even Moss Stitch (HTR, SL ST, HTR, SL ST and so on)

Rows 2-30

Continue as you did in Row 1 until you have 30 rows

Edging

After completing all 30 rows CH 1 and DC around the whole piece: top, bottom and sides remembering to do 3 DC in each corner

Creating a total number of 88 stitches

Tie off and cut

Assembly

Put both piece together with the front piece on top of the back piece

Start from the bottom left corner (the middle SC in the corner) and start from here

DC along joining both pieces together

When you get to the end of where the two piece come together continue stitching DC along the back piece

At the top of the back piece DC 6 stitches, CH 6 to make a loop for your button (for a larger or smaller button you may need more/less than a chain of 6 - just test your button out to work out how many CH ST you need)

Continue on the next ST around the edge of the back piece

When you come to the part where the front and back piece meet again continue to DC both pieces together until you reach where you began

Tie off, cut the yarn and weave in the ends

Suggestion

If you wish you could use a different yarn to assemble your two piece together

Button

Find the correct spot on the front piece for where your button needs to be placed and used and needle and thread sew the button in place

Video Tutorial

Click video to watch on YouTube